and engage with people in a way that draws them to you. You can use this understanding of emotions to relate better to people, form other healthier relationships, achieve greater success at work, and lead a more fulfilling life. Emotional intelligence consists of four attributes: Self-awareness You recognize your own emotions and how they affect your thoughts and behavior, know your strengths and weaknesses, and have self- confidence. selfmanagement You're able to control impulsive feelings and behaviors, manage your in healthy ways, take initiative, follow through on commitments, and emotions adapt to changing circumstances. Social awareness You can understand the emotions, needs, and concerns of other people, pick up on emotional cues, feel comfortable socially, and recognize the power dynamics in a group or organization. Relationship management You know how to develop and maintain good relationships, communicate clearly, inspire and influence others, work well in a team, and manage conflict.