before you? Your dream is not to loose your first beloved child in the hands of the vicious fate? Your dream is not to watch your husband and son fight a battle in which you have to choose sides?yeah, it does sound like choosing between either daal or baati! how would food be complete without both being present? Then how would my life be complete without the sync of the two? Sorry, just got drifted away! Well, i guess your dream is not to watch you beloved child fall in trap of either money or intoxication! I know your dream is not to outlive the person you love just for the sake of betterment of others..to watch your poor husband suffer at the hands of a common