SamanthaSamantha - "I feel like a failure. Why can't I have sex? The worst part is how it has affected my relationship with Dave, my husband of over four years. I have never been able to let him inside me and yet I so desire to be close in that way and to return his love. The fear of being molested so many years ago keeps surfacing. Could this be the problem? I have unhealthy thoughts about myself and feel trapped. My mom teases and pressures me about starting a family, but how can I even get pregnant?