Neurologists have much more patience for patients with things that can't be seen, only reported. The nerve pain portion could possibly be dealt with by a neurologist. They're also more open to having a conversation about whether they can be of help before making an office visit. You might say, I've seen many urologists who have examined me for the pain, I am currently using a steroid cream that helps somewhat, they are unable to help further, can you help determine the source of and resolution for the pain since there is no longer any visible inflammation...