U r not that bad ,I am much older than u as I said, I have had 2 long relationships n my life, just got out of almost 20 years of my second relationship but I left him,I still care about him,but I can't put up with his jealousy & he did not want me 2 have anything 2 do with anyone, even my family, I can't live that way anymore, my first relationship was more than 20 years, I have 2 beautiful children from that marriage, & as I said 4 grandkids, do u have children? R u really 22 & ur birthday is correct or not?